
This is real
Since 2020, I've heard from hundreds of Cantors & Rabbis who are being harmed. We've been forced to keep our 'public face' while serving congregations under extreme duress. Fear of retaliation is real and it DOES occur. Those at the top who can help are unwilling; they're protecting their own to save face.
- When Laity abuse occurs, there's NO oversight of this volunteer governing body.
- Reporting is often dismissed or minimized without any process. This is gaslighting; secondary harm.
- Ethics complaints to some Rabbinic and Cantorial organizations appear to FAVOR the offender & reinstate them.
No house of worship is perfect or healthy. A sacred space doesn't always mean it's a safe space.
There are professionals who can help you.
We can provide resources to help you navigate your path safely.
You can do hard things; speaking up is just the first step.
We understand the need to have a safe place to seek help.
You are not alone.
After several years enduring an unhealthy work environment in her synagogue, ClergyLifeLine founder, Cantor Penny Myers,
sought help from her laity. Ill equipped with the tools necessary to navigate a serious personnel problem coupled with the laity's inability to provide a safe and protected work environment, Cantor Myers was ultimately forced to resign her position as Cantor where she served over 14 years.
We are a kehillah k'doshah, a holy community.
We believe you and acknowledge that abuse from your laity, your fellow clergy, colleagues, congregants and co-workers is real.
It happens and it is systemic.
We hear you,
we understand you,
we believe you.
We validate you!
Abusive workplaces in houses of worship is rampant
We've been conditioned to not speak up.
Silence is no longer an option:
few clergy have spoken out
Some were retaliated against & punished severely for speaking
'truth to power'
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